Get Her To Spend Her Own Money Sometimes
(New York, NY)
I don't have a story to tell but I just want to say this, guys, I think you should test her just as she would test you. Sometimes when she wants to pay, LET HER. Or sometimes watch and see what she does on her own and let her do it.
And if she had a problem with you not stepping in and telling her no honey, I got it, then she wasn't being real and she was only fronting. And that disqualifies her. And if she never offers, that disqualifies her too.
After all, you're looking for a partner too right?, because she sure is. So if she wants to pay dangit, well just let her. I'm not saying to take advantage of it, but it's good to know that if you need her, she would probably be there to help you. I'm sure that's what most women would like themselves.
You should have each others back. No one drives a car without insurance right?, LOL.