How Do I Know I Can Trust My Girlfriend?

Question:

I like my girlfriend a lot, like I have never liked any one this much, but I don't know if I can trust her. She often goes out with one of our mutual girl friends and drinks, and sometimes there are other guys around. Maybe I am just being jealous, but I don't like it when she does this. Can I really trust her not to cheat?

Answer:
Well, I hope you don't like this girl more than you like yourself. It's alright to talk to her about it.

Say hey, hon, I'm really not feeling when you go out with all those girls and guys, what's up with that, I'm just asking. And also state, because If there was something that I was doing that you were uncomfortable with, it should be your right to discuss it with me.

And if there is something that she's doing that's uncomfortable with you, you should discuss it with her. It's all about communication. Trust is very important as well.

You'll just have to trust what she says till she does or says something that makes you feel differently. Then call her out on it.

You can't really trust anyone not to cheat, you don't have control over anyone's actions. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Go out with your friends too and notice how she likes it. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Love yourself first and don't tolerate any nonsense.

I hope I've answered your question pal. Take care and all the best.

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