Romancing a Substance..

by Amanda
(Knoxville, TN USA)

If your significant other is holding a beer (or Martini etc) more often than holding your hand, or seemingly cannot do anything (such as unwind or make an important call) without first saying "I have to get a beer" or whatever this is a huge red flag that will usually just worsen.


I'm not talking about enjoying a beer (etc) or needing one after a long hard day on occasion-but when they start talking about it differently and acting differently because of it.

My ex started this in a very subtle way at first but eventually wound up with a beer in his hand at ten in the morning-it all began with his approach to the subject changing, and him changing when he approached the subject.

Should of seen it coming?

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