need advice regarding ex girlfriend

by biltong
(south africa)

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I went out with this girl for 3 months, and she left me, for some stupid reasons, things that could have been sorted out if she just talked to me. 2 months after the break-up we became friends. Things was a bit awkward in the beginning, but soon things went better. I was totally over her when we became friends again and now I like her again and want her back, but I am not desperate.

The thing is, the last couple of weeks it's almost deja vu, certain things she says and do is identically what she said and do just before we got together the first time, i.e: I am very ticklish, something she did a lot when we were together, she started to poke me again, and yes by only poking me it is ticklish and she will say things like she likes my style if I did something, things she did just before we got together the first time.

I bought an LCD TV last week, and out of the blue she wants us to celebrate it with a pizza and DVDs night.

I want her back, she is really an awesome girl, and I am not the type that falls for every girl I see. Lets just say even though there are plenty fish in the sea, I basically like the coelacanth. The type of girls i like is very rare and almost extinct.

What should I do?

Answer
It seems as though she misses you but I'd play it cool. Now my question is why did she leave? What may sound stupid to you may be serious business to her.

Let her make all the moves because remember, she's the one that left.

Take this slow and make her work a little, you want to be sure that this is not a game on her part and by you not being so anxious to let her back in.

By doing this, this will let her know that she's in the major leagues and she just can't bounce back and forth in and out of your heart.

I hope I gave to something to roll with. All the best to you and good luck.

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